March 2012
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Anonymous asked: To the anon asking about shaving: that picture was me. Hi! My advice is be really really patient and don't press with the razor at all, just go over the area as many times as you need to. Shave with the grain of the hair, not against it, except on the very last time you go over it. Use a LOT of shaving cream, or actually conditioner works better. As soon as you get out of the shower (and...
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swoonyelena asked: The anon sub from earlier gave me a little heartache... I started things out as a sub, though I'm exploring switching a bit, too, and I understand how difficult it can be to live out the personal fantasy of "I'm giving myself to you, just use me as you please!" and still negotiate boundaries. I don't get enough space in the ask box to actually address how I've dealt...
Anonymous asked: Sometimes (like right now) I feel so pathetic and desperate that I tie my over-ear headphone cord to the arm of my chair and just tug my head to the side off and on to feel the resistance. It just feels less pathetic than doing it with my collar. But reading your blog and all the responses reminds me that there are tons of people out there, and that eventually I might find someone to do the tying...
Anonymous asked: What's your safeword?
Anonymous asked: yer coooooooooooooooool
Anonymous asked: How did you get so smooth? I always end up a little stubbly, and then when it grows back it itches like a mother fucker.
Anonymous asked: My boy once tried to call me "Ma'am" and ended up saying "mom". Total mood-killer (unless you're into it), so just be careful when using that term.
Anonymous asked: is there any reason you use CAFAB/CAMAB instead of FAAB/MAAB?
mjgswim asked: How do you like your new OHMIBOD vibrator? How powerful is it? How many speeds does it have?
Anonymous asked: Why are people such assholes to switches? Man, what the fuck.
Anonymous asked: Your last few posts, particularly the last one have made me smile so much. Its good to see there's someone who is willing to give such advice from the dominant position of things [I identify as submissive]. So thank you. You are my hero tonight.
unable-to-lose-this-image asked: izzy i love love seeing you do your thing. you're so good :) is there some cheat sheet to all these abbreviations like CAMAB ? i know none of them and i wanna know what ya'll are talking about! at your feet :x
Anonymous asked: Never mind. I decided I'm not talking to him again. I'm an idiot. I'm blocking him. He's an asshole.
Anonymous asked: I'm the FAAB sub from earlier... I'm genderqueer, if it matters, and I feel like I'm being really, really, stupid if I ever meet him in real life, probably? Right? But like... I want to have an online relationship with him in some form, and I don't know, I'm just... stupid and horny and inexperienced and how do I even DO boundaries? I'm a sub... I'm supposed to...
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Anonymous asked: i really like miss! daddy is a favourite, although i like to be feminine. tell us how daddy goes! but thank you for the list, that really helps me out a bunch. xx
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so devin and i are talking about that anon in......
devin: I don't know whether I want to hug that anon or slap them. or hug you. I just want to hug everyone involved, except maybe the guy.
devin: for the record, though, I like your response
izzy: yeah seriously
izzy: jesus tho WHAT ARE YOU THINKING WHY IS THIS A QUESTION
izzy: who gives a shit if he "seems nice"1?!!? like, wtf?!!?
izzy: like, i get being lonely and wanting someone so bad, but you're FAAB and comfortable with mandoms. YOU'LL BE FINE.
izzy: give it a year and like, 40 minutes at a play party in a decent city, you sweet young thing, don't literally gag on anyone's cock omg
devin: just
devin: like
devin: tpe is serious fucking business
devin: I don't understand how someone could even dream of negotiating tpe online
devin: you don't even know if the dude has, like, horrible breath or something
izzy: and like, maybe this person is throwing around the term 'tpe' here but like
izzy: ugh i don't know like
izzy: trans? being "loaned"? seems like a literal equation for not being respected in the bad, triggery ways
devin: RIGHT
devin: like maybe this makes me not subby enough, but I don't care, if I'm being loaned I WANT TO MEET EVERYONE I'M BEING LOANED TO. and have a conversation with them. and see if they respect me as a guy.
izzy: that's not "not subby enough", that's subby with reasonable boundaries
izzy: lol
izzy: like
izzy: jesus
devin: I agree, but some people are idiots and think subs don't get to have boundaries
devin: and what worries me is your anon kind of seems like ze agrees
izzy: i want to stab those people
izzy: and like, if that's what they think, they're probably okay with this creepo thinking that
izzy: and that's
izzy: so incredibly dangerous and terrifying and
izzy: ahhhhhhhhh BB NO
devin: I wonder- barely legal meaning sixteen, or eighteen?
devin: because if eighteen, GO TO A FUCKING MUNCH. TALK TO ACTUAL LEGIT PEOPLE AND UNDERSTAND WHY WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS DANGEROUS.
izzy: jefgliquegf
devin: if sixteen... back. the. fuck. up.
izzy: YOU LIVE WITH YOUR PARENTS. YOU'RE ALREADY *IN* A TPE.
devin: E X A C T L Y
devin: like
devin: no
devin: you have to live for at least a few years making your own decisions before you enter into another tpe
izzy: yeah
devin: you need that as a life experience for yourself
keepyourcorsetstight asked: I love how much you seem to care about your followers and about educating people. That super long response to that FAAB person was so full of good information and things to consider. I bet it helped a lot of people besides just the original question asker.
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Other Words for Mistress
girlsrule-subsdrool:
Miss
Ma’am
Master
Goddess
Your Highness
Lady
Milady
Princess
Queen
Domme
Top
Ladyship
High One
Empress
and probably more :)
Anonymous asked: in response to the anon asking for other titles than "mistress", I'd suggest looking to all kinds of "polite" addresses - "ma'am" seems like a perfectly good alternative. I don't know?
Anonymous asked: do you know any better words for mistress than, well, mistress? :c i would really like to maybe one day have my own little subby girl, but i absolutely /cannot/ stand that word. crycrycry
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Anonymous asked: I'm a barely legal FAAB sub. I just started talking to a 30 yr old man online. He brought up a relationship... Online only for a while, maybe progressing to IRL and then him loaning me to his friends as part of a TPE thing. That's the kind of relationship I want eventually but I didn't expect it to be so soon in my life. This is a terrible idea, isn't it? Even if he seems...
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February 2012
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fizzogles asked: I'm digging your scribbles. :) I like good simple line work and also lots of color contrast.
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concerning how male submission can be devalued...
“The BDSM blogosphere has been all aflutter lately about the devaluation of male submission. And it’s about fucking time. Because the kink scene treats male subs as if they are unwanted, uninvited guests, not recognizing the fact that they are real people with feelings of their own, that their dominant partners cherish them. Every time I see a Fetlife profile that reads “I’m not...
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